Now that you've decided to become a cat parent, it's time to figure out if you want a kitten or an adult or senior cat. Even at an early age, cats have big personalities, so consider what type of kitten will suit your lifestyle, especially as they mature into adulthood. Remember, cats can live up to 20 years or more — the two of you will live a long, happy life together!
So, how do you choose a kitten when there are so many adorable kitties in need of a forever home? Keep the following tips in mind so that you pick the kitty (or two!) who's best for you.
When choosing a kitten, consider whether you'd prefer a newborn or slightly older kitty.
Adopting a newborn kitten (younger than 4 weeks of age) requires a considerable amount of time and attention but can be a very rewarding experience. However, most kittens won't be ready for adoption until they're around 8-12 weeks old, after they've been weaned and litter-trained. The reason for this is that they are still gaining from the benefits of nursing from their mothers and socializing with the rest of their litter mates.
An important aspect of choosing any pet is finding a compatible personality. To determine if you're a good match, get down on her level — literally. Sit on the floor, hold her and pick her up if she lets you. Ask the shelter or her previous pet parent questions about her temperament and how she gets along with other cats and people. Bring all of your family members to meet her, including other pets of yours, if possible.
Never force the interaction on her though. If she seems scared or timid, it might just be because she is still learning about the world, but it might also because she doesn't feel comfortable around you. While this can be a sign that she might not be right for you, it just might mean that you need to take things a little slower and engage with her at her own speed.
While it is easy to get caught up in how cute a kitten is, it is vital to look beyond just the looks of the kitten. Judge her personality and how well it will fit in line with your family. If she's playful and energetic, make sure that's the type of cat you're looking for. If she seems like a cuddler, be prepared to share your bed. The adoption counselors at the shelter or breeders can help provide some more details on her personality when you're not around.
If you have other pets in the home or children, ask if they think the kitten you're looking at are compatible. The worst thing you can do is adopt a kitten and have to return it because it is not a good fit.
When choosing a kitten, inquire about her health history, including past vaccines and whether she's been spayed or neutered. Check her eyes, ears and coat for any signs of irritation or illness. You'll want to know about any health issues before adoption so that you're fully prepared for the time and resources the kitty will need from you.
Have the essentials ready before bringing home your kitten. You'll want to cat-proof your home (place power cords and window blind cords out of reach, secure window screens, close off unsafe rooms), and have fresh water as well as a clean litter box and extra litter.
A cat's scratching and hunting instincts run deep; provide her with scratching posts, toys and even a plain old cardboard box — she'll love it! Remember that her diet is key to maintaining this energy level. Choosing the best kitten food will establish a lifetime of healthy eating habits.
Take your kitty to the veterinarian soon after adoption for a physical screening, and so you can discuss a vaccine schedule with the vet. You might also consider microchipping which, as the Chicago Cat Clinic notes, is the best way to find a lost cat.
Your kitty may be shy at first, but she'll start to feel at home — on her own timetable. "Kittens should be gradually and positively acclimated as early as possible to any stimuli or handling techniques that owners plan them to encounter during their lifetime (e.g., children, dogs, nail trims, tooth and coat brushing, car transport)," encourages the American Animal Hospital Association. Once she feels comfortable, you'll have a tough time getting her to stop playing.
One of the easiest ways to get a kitten acclimated to your home is to start small — keep her in a small enclosure when you don't take her out to play or use the litter box and gradually expand that space over time until she's ready to have run of your entire home.
Figuring out how to choose a kitten can be overwhelming when there are so many sweet kitties to pick from, but with these tips, you'll be sure to find your furry, forever friend!
Christine O'Brien is a writer, mom, and long-time cat parent whose two Russian Blues rule the house. Her work also appears in Care.com, What to Expect, and Fit Pregnancy, where she writes about pets, pregnancy, and family life. Find and follow her on Instagram and Twitter @brovelliobrien.
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